The weather is warming up.
The birds are returning to their nests.
Summer is just around the corner.
And the natives are getting restless!
Have you noticed that, although this is the time of year of new life and rebirth, it is also the time of year that school can become dry, boring and well, public school is looking more and more like a viable option?
Been there, done that! First of all, be incouraged. All homeschool families go through times like these. If your kids are begining to continually whine and complain about their schoolwork or it is regularly taking your kids 3 hours to complete a 20 minute assignment, it is time to shake things up a bit.
Here are my best tips for overcoming the urge to enroll your little ones in school and surveying the greener grass on the other side:
Taking a break and consider doing some outside or ‘unschooly’ activities. How long has it been since you took a field trip? I know that, especially with lots of kids to teach, school time can become all about getting everything done. It is natural as a responsible homeschool parent to feel uneasy when subjects have not been covered or progress is slower than we’d like. Sometimes, we just need to let go of all of the expectations and relax. Stepping away from the school room can change every one’s perspective – teachers and students alike – and can be just the refreshment that everyone needed.
Have you learned much about learning styles? I find that my kids do better with different methods, environment, etc. Especially young boys! They like to be moving. Things I have tried with my young boys:
- short, intense lessons
- lots of hands on
- change up the media – use dry erase, gel pens, iPad, Play Doh etc
- allow verbal responses instead of writing
- go outside more
- listen to classical music during lessons
- give him a shovel and send him outside (no, I am not kidding!)
Gain some long term perspective. During the younger years, when we are working our way through a curriculum I so clearly remember stressing that my 2nd grader couldn’t remember the difference between a noun and a verb! Duh! Then the next year’s curriculum was reteaching a lot of what was taught the year before! They do not need to ‘get’ it all in the early years. There is a lot of time for review!
Understand child development. Kids have developmental growth spurts where they will work away at their school with no problems and then suddenly reach a plateau where they just can’t seem to move ahead. Taking a break or changing up the teaching method during these times is often all that is needed to break through the resistance.
Spend more time with read-alouds. You just can’t go wrong here. It builds relationships and brains.
On a more serious note, if you have lost your homeschool vision and are feeling like you just can’t homeschool anymore, remember the reasons that you began homeschooling, write them down. Consider making a Homeschool Mission Statement.
Homeschool burnout affects kids too. How have you overcome homeschool burnout in your family?